People

Had one of those eureka moments a while ago, although it's all a bit nebulous...

For a lot of people the teenage years are an opportunity to experiment with identity, it's when you are figuring out who you are, and your body is growing into itself. But I'm only doing that now. So I just had a sort of flash of 'it's ok to be whoever you want'...it's like looking at those two faces and suddenly seeing the vase. Seeing exactly the same world in a totally different way.

And most people will quite happily accept you as whoever you are, so on the basis of probability it's best to act like everyone will; those who don't are the anomaly.

Friday night philosophy over.