support

not all support comes the way we want,- the feeling that people ignore, cheat or treat us bad hurts, but looking twice, there is ridiculous little reality in it. No one really has the power to do it, we just keep on hurting ourselves and blaming others for it. The pain is comes from a deeper place inside, the outer world is just a reminder ... Beyond the inner pain there is wholeness and freedom, including the freedom to allow others to do whatever they have to do, allowing them have their ways. It's none of our business. Sometimes the most valuable support may be found behind the words we don't want to hear, and in the things we don't want to happen,- they keep us awake.