It’s twelve years

Since my mum died. I’ve been thinking a lot about her today.  I was lucky to be with her, which really helped me, and maybe her too. 
So of course I’ve been thinking about dying today too.  It’s so odd, cos we don’t know what it’s like, and we don’t know when it’ll happen.  Could take several  months - like mum. Or could happen in a split second - like dad. Just confirms it’s important to make the best of each day.  Doesn’t have to be busy or full of activity. Contentment is sufficient.