Essex girl or Akbuk?

A very quiet, peaceful, calm and enjoyable day home alone - sorting, cleaning, tutoring, knitting - until this evening when bro, nephew Nº2 and I went to the Fox and Raven (Haven) for dinner with my 40% off voucher :) Now back home alone with TV and knitting feeling very warm and comfortable. Where exactly is 'home' has been on my mind a lot recently as I start to think about going back 'home' to Akbuk after seven weeks here in Essex. Decisions to be made, and fairly soon.