Sometimes it takes something bad to happen to make you take stock of all the good things in your life. For me a massive wakeup call has been thinking about the shootings that happened in Cumbria not too far from where I live and work. I know that something as awful as this is equally as terrible where ever it happens (geographically) but somehow having it happen so close and effecting people that I know has brought it sharper into focus. It has made me think a lot about how lucky we are and be grateful for what we have and the good things that have happened to us more, rather on focusing on what we haven?t got and the things that we would like to happen.