Just a pot of pansies!

Breakfast with 3 MWs this morning. One is new to the group, just coming up to her first anniversary .  Before that however a wedding anniversary to face. She was in a quandary about what she ‘should’ do. My friend and I are opposites. She and her 4 daughters and many grandkids all celebrate every anniversary whether it’s the wedding, birthday or day he passed.  I prefer to either ignore it, or wallow on my own. I mentioned that I am unsure about the wedding one this year as it would have been our golden. New lady looked perplexed and said ‘I thought golden was 50’. ‘It is’ I said. She laughed and asked me if I had got married at 5? I wasn’t sure what she meant until she said ‘there’s no way you could have been married for 50years. She was genuinely amazed at my age. 
That lady is staying in our group!