memorial


(for friend Jan who died so suddenly in early April - the speaker's mostly leaned into her resume which was mighty impressive------ and left me wanting to tell them of the visit she made to me shortly after I lost Tom, to tell me of her mother who was widowed suddenly and did eventually find life and happiness again - those are the kinds of acts that I treasure ---human to human in small but so big moments)


(they did not do those stand up and share moments which is good with me and i would not have anyway cause i would have mostly cried )