A lonely kite

Is it better to spend time with your kids on father's day or to have a well-earned, relaxing break? Mother's day and Father's day seem to have different expectations, in my mind. I suppose because, traditionally, men don't see their kids as much as women. Either way, my better half has been working in St. Lucia all week and flies home tonight, having spent the day at the beach, so he has definitely had a relaxing father's day! I'm sure he'd rather have been at a kite festival in Streatham with us...