Toto, I've a feeling we're not in Kansas anymore.

I've made some gorgeous friends and had amazing life experiences in London. I knew I could never have that in Cheshire where I grew up.

Even at Arts Foundation I never quite fitted in.

Bristol was lovely but it was only in London where life experience could be had and diversity enjoyed, that I found home.

When 'out of towner's' visit me they always comment on how different I am here. More confident.

It’s not that I am gay or trans or anything like that, I just don’t want to be controlled.