Graveyard

My wife's father is here and we came today to clean the grave site and put some flowers. He died when she was only 13 and so I have never met him in person; only in spirit. I know this looks crowded and indeed it is. No bodies here, of course, since cremation is the rule in Japan. I do not have a family in Japan and so I have no plot for my memorial, should I want one. I am hoping that maybe when the time comes I can sort of join with my wife's family and be taken care of in this graveyard. I know, sort of morbid thoughts but you got to have them sometime. I like the peaceful nature of this place. We were the only people there and the smell of the incense we placed on the gravestone wafted all the up to where I was when I took the photo with my iPhone.