It's up to you!

My uncle and mum said today when I asked them what would they like to have said (or not) in their obituary.

I'd put this question forward cause the friend who'd recently died had eagerly spoken on this subject and my relatives didn't.

They do say with intervals that they don't want to live when this or that happens, but they never said a word on how they'd like to be remebered or have their service done when dead.

It's up to you! was all both wanted to say on this subject today.

it's like this little statue expresses their present 'lightness of being'