Parenting 101

My husband should write a book titled "How To Make Your Stressed-Out Wife's Life More Difficult 101". It can have a bonus chapter on Parenting that I'm sure would win awards. Don't get me wrong, I applaud him for stepping up on the disciplining of our 4 year old tantrum-loving angel, however, taking his play room and all the toys inside as well as any TV privileges away for two days is not an ideal solution for this stay-at-home momma. My entertaining skills have been exponentially challenged the last few days, and oh joy! 2-20-13 has come and gone and Alex has lost yet another day of 'privileges'. Why do I feel like I'm the one getting punished?