Bee and Hari - if guys have a best friend i am pretty sure Hari is the one, and Bee keeps everyone going no matter -

(one step forward and two back - we met at a fun run celebration, him on twinkle toes asking if i went out, and me considering, "well sometimes" - and we did but i had another boyfriend so sent him a note to say two at once did not work.  and all this time him working at the ski hill in Boise, me wondering if I was stupid, me seeing him on mountain. and him asking me for tea, back and forth like this for several years, then him moving to Sawtooth Valley north of Ketchum and me in Boise working and raising my young daughter, but once again we trip over each other at a folk concert up near Ketchum, me asking if he remembered me, him saying later he was stunned with glee and then some more notes letters and visits - with Bee and Hari having us to dinner to push the romance as Bee was convinced I would settle her wild most unsettled friend, me many drives up into the mountains and over the pass to spend time, he not able to leave as he ran cattle in summer and dudes to cross country ski in winter, the feed lot he called it year round, but it got more settled until he fled in fear and broke my heart - and dear Bee counseled, and who knows what Hari did but he came to me at my office on bended knee four months later, and I said yes, but added as requirements I do go to ballets and wear normal clothing and you have to have a real job with a paycheck and wear something other than ski or bike clothing.  and here we are 37 years later in April and our young girls were thrilled and we are family which is the best we could ask)