May i ask You something...

Around 4pm or little after ,she wants to ask a question. It happens almost every day. She s living for more then 3years with us. In the beginning with her husband but he has left the body almost a year ago. She adpted wel. Still she will ask where do i have to go tonight? Where can i sleep? So we softly explain that it will bedifficult to live alone and that she needs some help , but maybe you might progress and there is some chance in future. Most of the times she understands , but yes it ain t easy .. living together with a group of people you didn t on a volontary base. But having a talk with htem helps a lot.
We call this moment of the day the sundowning syndrome. Elderly people become restless because they have to go to their children and prepare food and so on.