Bokeh

As all you snappers know, Bokeh comes from the Japanese word boke (ボケ), which means "blur" or "haze". In a photograph, bokeh is the quality of out-of-focus or “blurry” parts of the image rendered by a camera lens – it is NOT the blur itself.
Rather, bokeh is to do with the quality and feel of the background/foreground blur and reflected points of light, normally recreating the shape of the blades of the lens being used. So bokeh is linked to the lens not the camera.
When we look at life, we see things through our own lens, interpreting what we see through our experinces or, dare I say it, prejudices?
Maybe time to change the lens?