Sociable

An unbelievably social day! Having opened the hens it was down the road to Gunnislake to pick up Friends daughter and partner. They had taken their van they converted themselves for travel ( solar panel, sink, hob, lights, bed, settee and a stick burner for warmth! ) for an MOT. They plan to traven to Morocco soon! Then awalk over to party Girls for a chat and a drink in her garden. Beautiful sunshine today and so mild. On the way home I saw a friend I've not seen in ages doing her washing up - so I waved and out she came for a cuddle and chat. She lost her mum a year ago and has had a bad year. Her mother refused the  amputation of her leg due to gangrene and she watched her die over 9 days. I feel that to watch someone die leaves one with PSD. She was saying how having cleared her mothers house she must now do her own - she has two rooms she can't get into! I told her about the Space Clearing course I started online and she was most interested. Having stuff like she and I do is about having a clear out of one's mind and soul, not just the removal of physical stuff. She said it was meant that we should meet on this day, she is very spiritual.She was wearing the best sheepskin slippers I have ever seen and Oscar was most taken with them. She said he could have them once the new ones she has ordered arrive! 
Come the afternoon it was a walk on kit Hill with The Exile and dogs - much fun as you can imagine! Her partner is adjusting to being in the company of other people, The Exile said she found this difficult on first coming back. They live in a small village and apart from work don't see a lot od people at one go! I wouldn't call Kit Hill crowded but a group of walkers were ahead of us and even they freaked him out!
All in all the best day I've had in a long time. I don't know whether making the decision about Milkshake and the Dr has helped, or whether I was already coming out and so was able to make the decisions about both. The Dr listened to me and understood why i didn't want drugs, but gave me some I could take as and when needed. Sh esaid that probably just having them there as an option would help, I agree! I very much doubt I will take them! I'm sure I will have further bad days - but the memory of this good one will help me cope and continue to move forward.