French Lavender

My upstairs neighbour has a pot of this in our " shared " yard. They have lived here for 8 years and she is finding it very difficult faced with my determination that we do share the wee space. They have totally dominated it until recently : my guess is the previous single tenants of my flat have given up faced with this formidable pair. 
I found a terse line from Margaret Attwood recently : " Money is thicker than Blood ". So I gave my woman neighbour a chunk of money to compensate her for now having to share with me. She managed to smile once !.
Oh ageing Sucks.