Whenever you are self-conscious you are simply showing that
you are not conscious of the self at all. You don't know who you
are. If you had known, then there would have been no problem ---
then you are not seeking opinions. Then you are not worried what
others say about you --- it is irrelevant! In fact, nobody ever says anything
about you --- whenever people say something about you, they are saying
it about themselves.
Osho 'From the Book of Secrets'

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