The day we all met with kathy,after the engagement

We all met at Texas roadhouse like we do everyyear to celebrate the January birthdays. The seating was perfect, it had Alan facing his back to Kathy grandpa in the booth behind him.. He never even told Kathy bye. I don't know how I feel about grandpa being engaged to be married to someone I don't know, but she helps take care of him well (he's lost 26lbs and has improved on medication) bug I just don't get why she should be a bolen.