Endurance

It struck me today after a rather tricky conversation that the ability to endure can be something that holds you back.
If you're willing to put up with situations and behaviour simply because you have broad shoulders and the ability to do so then you don't strive to change them or pull people up on bad behaviour.
Today's challenging conversation was difficult but if it changes the person's behaviour then it was worth the hurt face and sad slump that bothered me so much.