Couldn't make up my mind, was thinking of this maybe.

Been having some lovely phone conversations regarding the care of my sick mother lately.
-no I'm sorry she is not our patient you should call them and them instead
-OK
-no you should be talking to them end them
- but them and them told me to call you
-yes but it's them and thems responsibility..
Ok better call them and them then...

But I did post a mail to five of the tops in the organisation, telling them what was going on. I t looks like that's the way to go...