White Flower

... I know what these are called but I'm having a bit of a blonde moment and I've forgotten!! I used to have quite a few of them both white and blue but this seems to be the only one which came up this year. We actually did a bit of gardening today and even cut the grass so I've not got 4 bags of rubbish for dad to take to the tip for me. The winter has killed several plants including by beautiful Bottle Brush tree - I tried to see if any bits were still alive but nope its as dead as dead can be. I need to do a massive amount of pruning on my extra large fig tree but haven't a clue what to do or where to start any ideas?? Its nearly as tall as the house and takes up a lot of light in teh garden plus I can't reach the figs so its feast time in September for the birds and also teh grape vine needs a LOT of work too - *sigh* I think we're in for a busy few weeks!!